Would you like to learn how to let a girl know you like her?  Firstly, don't try to rationalize the entire thing with her – Plenty of men will take a seat and craft a whole presentation basically and practice it in order to say it just right.  Then they spend time with the woman and simply spill their thoughts out to her.  In many cases the guy will be so jumpy the whole time that his romantic declaration will only look awkward or creepy.

There are two reasons why this is the opposite of what you ought to be doing.

The first reason why this is not really appropriate is because you're simply approaching it from a standpoint that you have to rationalize liking her.  This is basically another symptom of trying to impress the woman and show her that you are deserving of her.  She won’t think this is a turn on and this may hurt your chances with her if she already does like you.  It is fine to just like a girl without having to rationalize it.

Secondly, you are so swept up in your mind going through your speech that you're not actually there with the girl.  Your brain is off with its own thoughts, which girls find really unappealing and will kill just about all connection.  Alternatively, try to get yourself fully to the current moment and be there with her.

You're likely thinking this is all hippy-dippy junk, but you'd be amazed at how very true this is.  If you need help with this, just work on concentrating on your body.  Can you feel how your feet are touching the ground or how the clothing you are wearing feels on your skin?  Or think about that warm feeling in your upper body when you spend time with the girl?  I hope you can start to grasp why this is so vital when you are talking to girls?

I hope you are starting to get this.

Sure that is great, but what are some actual things you can do to prove to her you dig her?  Here is how to let a girl know you like her the proper way.

There's a phrase in the seduction community named an SOI - Statement of Intent.  The SOI was introduced by Juggler (a PUA name for a man named Wayne Elise).  A simple SOI looks like this:

Her: My dress rehearsal is tomorrow night.  I'm so looking forward to my dancing performance on Sunday.

You:  I really think it is sexy how dedicated and passionate you are about your performance.

By telling her that she is "sexy" you are sending a quite strong but subtle message to her that you don't want to simply be friends with her.  It's a very subtle detail, but this lets the woman know that she can move forward and begin hitting on you.  Just say this casualy and do not try to build it up into some type of huge thing.  The point here is to be sophisticated.  Don't get worried, she won't miss it.

There is another way to let a woman know that you like her, which would be to just be direct and blunt with it.

For example, maybe you could be getting together with her and one of those quiet moments falls over both of you.  You need to do what a man does here and simply take her and say something such as "I really want to kiss you now."  Then you need to follow this up by kissing her.  Not just a peck on the cheek, but a proper kiss.  This will likely seem a little daunting initially, but girls think this is really romantic.

The major difference between this and the awkward, nervous approach above, is that, firstly, this isn't some sort of rehearsed trick you kind of stumble through.  And secondly, this is something which a real man would do.  You are honestly letting her know that you want to kiss her, not simply getting all tense about whether or not she will say yes when you ask her to "perhaps maybe think of" being your girlfriend.  You have no feeling of guilt over it.  When you do this type of thing, it shows women you have plenty of motivation and you can follow-through on the things you want in life.

So, that is how to let a girl know you like her.  The important factor here is make sure that it is laid back and not some type of big deal.  If you just act like it is the most ordinary and natural thing there is, she'll deal with it so and follow suit.
 


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