It's a matter of pride – every guy would love to attract a girl who is so hot people will shake their heads in disbelief.

Believe it or not, it can happen. I'm proof. It's a great feeling to wake up in the morning and wonder why. But, I quit wondering and just enjoyed.

Step 1: Make a Move

Take action. Start talking. If you're going to land one of those out-of-your-league girls.  Look, the girl's hot, she probably knows it. The thing about good-looking women is that they don't have to ask guys out, they ask her.

Maybe it's not fair, you having to do all the work. But, it's a fact of life.  An attractive girl won't make a move. It's up to you to get in there and make the move.

Step 2: Make the Move – Ask Her Out

Alright! You've moved in and your talking. You're one hoof ahead of the rest of the herd.  Keep things moving, keep her talking. The more you can get her to talk, the easier things get.

Hopefully you've thought of something interesting to do with her. So, go ahead and ask. Tell her about it. Tell her you'd like to share it with her. Ask her out.  Be creative. A burger and a shake can go a long way, but not that far. Maybe a stroll down a street that's having a sidewalk bazaar; get some kebobs from a street vendor to eat in a nearby park.

Don't be too busy or not busy enough when you go out. Movies – not good. You sit in the dark and don't talk. You need a chance to get to know each other, to flirt.

Step 3: The Big Step

The girl has probably figured out that you really like her, but if you don't really show it, she'll get the yawns and move on.  You think she's hot, let her know. Otherwise, you'll end up being a confidant and not a boy friend.

Take the lead. Be bold. Be confident. Women like that sort of masculinity.  Take a risk. Tell her exactly how you feel about her. Give her a kiss.  The best way to let a girl know how you feel is to tell her you think she's sexy.

“Sexy” is a marker word. It let's her know that you've got ideas about her and that they aren't platonic. That if you hang out together, it's going to be more than friendly.

The girl may be out of your league, but you can probably attract her by following these guidelines.  Basically, what you need to do is set aside any fear or confidence issues and take action.  It may not be easy to muster the courage, but, you know, someone's going to end up dating these hot girls and it might as well be you.
 


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