Seduction Dynamo

It's almost universal - guys want to know how to meet beautiful women.  There are special places you can go to meet them, and there are special ways to treat them.  I'll share my knowledge of these "secrets" with you.

You Can Meet Beautiful Women Here . . .

It's no secret - wherever you look, there are beautiful women.  Here's something I think a lot of people don't really understand - these gorgeous ladies really aren't any different than you or me.  They must eat, sleep and go to work.  They usually like to spend their time having fun from time to time, and they've got lives to lead that require the same things from that as are required of the rest of us.

One fact of life is that big cities are home to more than their share of the world's most beautiful women.  It's not hard to figure out why - there's more opportunity for an extremely beautiful woman in a big city.  For instance, modeling and acting careers are easier to pursue in big cities.  Likewise, since also attract the wealthy and successful, there's more opportunity to meet such men in big cities.  Finally, cities are more active and exciting than most rural areas.

You're truly hunting beautiful women now - where can you find them?  How about the places they might go to enhance and show off their beauty, or the places they might go to maintain their beauty and physical tone?  To maintain their beauty, women go to the gym.  To enhance their beauty, they buy fashionable clothing and accessories in trendy stores.  Go to those places if you want to find beautiful women.

Gyms are great places to met beautiful woman, and it's easy to do.  Be ready to work out, and then go position yourself by one of the bench press machines.  When a girl comes by, ask her if she'll spot for you - tell her your workout buddy got called out of town.  Of course you can introduce yourself, and when you're done be certain to thank her.  Get her phone number, too, but only if it feels right.

You can meet beautiful women in nice stores as well.  When you see one you'd like to get to know, simply ask her for help in selecting a nice gift for your cousin or sister.  She'll probably respond positively if you tell her she seems to have the same sense of understated elegance as your sister, and ask her to give you ideas about a gift like a sweater or similar item.  Talk with her while you're shopping together, keeping the conversation light and non-threatening.  You can learn a great deal about her in just a few minutes if you pay attention to what she says.

Meeting Beautiful Women - What's the Best Way to Behave?

Most men, when they're around beautiful women, get tongue-tied and act confused.  It's pretty embarrassing, really.  They start acting all macho and stupid.  It's a phenomenon called "beauty vision."  You can't be just like them or you'll lose out, just like them.

Your most important rule right now is to absolutely ignore the fact that she's adorable.

She's well aware of her beauty, and has been for many years.  When you focus on something other than her looks, you send the signal that you're not so easily conquered.  She may appreciate that you're clearly not just interested in her because of her looks, even if she feels a little uncomfortable with the idea that you're not so easily won over.

All you need to do is treat her like any other person you might run into during the course of the day.  You'll be like a breath of fresh air to her instead of the bumbling idiots she usually meets.  At the same time, though, because she doesn't often meet men who aren't moved by her beauty, she'll consider you somewhat mysterious.  She'll be off-balance, because she'll appreciate being treated like a grownup women, but she'll also be wondering whether or not you even find her attractive at all!  She'll feel challenged by what comes across as your inattention to her beauty, and she'll want to prove to herself that she still has that special power over men - even you.

Meeting beautiful women, then, isn't hard at all, if you know where to look and how to act.  This one thing is so crucial, though, that it bears repeating: No matter how much her beauty takes your breath away, you cannot let it show or to her, you'll forever be just another idiot who doesn't k

Pick up artists have been using these routines for ages to achieve dating success, and you can too!  Let's discuss a few of them.  These techniques are the same ones used by highly successful PUAs to establish their successful dating relationships, but they're really nothing more than stories developed to make you look great.

Some routines have been beaten to death, like "the cube" and "the jealous girlfriend."  We're not going to waste time on these.

The Present Routine - This is a very creative routine that will help you to learn a great deal more about your "chosen" target.

It couldn't be easier - just go up to a group of girls and let them know that a business crisis called your buddy out of town unexpectedly.  He's given you money - say $200, or whatever - to get his girlfriend a birthday present.  The problem is, you don't know what to get her, and so you're hoping they'll give you some advice.

What's beautiful about this strategy is that the girls, whatever they suggest, will be revealing information about themselves.  Let's say, for example, that one of the girls suggests that you get the girlfriend a gift certificate for a day at a spa.  You now know that the girl who made the suggestion moves being pampered.  Perhaps one of the girls suggests costly accessories like Prada and Guess.   Well, guess who has expensive tastes?  Especially if you're persistent and patient, and get the girls to think about their suggestions, this will give you incredibly valuable information.  Imagine if one of the girls first tells you to buy a designer handbag, but her second suggestion is a book of poetry by a particular author.

Dating for Dummies - I've encountered a lot of different routines, and this is one of the funniest I've heard of.  It's a great icebreaker and it helps women to feel really relaxed around you.

You need to get one of those terrible dating books - something with a title like, say, "Dating for Dummies."

Carry it with you into a club or anywhere else you'll meet women.  Open it to the section titled "Pickup Lines you Should Never Use."

This is the fun part - go up to the girl you want to meet, and holding the book in front of you so she can see the title, start reading the bad pickup likes out loud.  You can get an awful lot of mileage out of this approach - look for the really terrible lines like "Do you come here often, baby?" and "If I said you had a beautiful body, would you hold it against me?" 

This ought to get you a few laughs - assuming she's got any sense of humor at all - and she'll let down her guard.  And try this - look at her straightforwardly and, in all innocence, ask her "So how'd I do? Did it work?"

Pick up artists have worked on these routines and perfected them, and now you can use them as a way to break the ice and start talking with the attractive women you've been dreaming of.  Once you've got a conversation going, though, you can't let it stay at the question and answer level.  You've got to make a connection.  If you want to establish rapport with her, share something personal - maybe a story from your childhood, or an incident from your job.  Women respond positively to men who open up to them personally, and you'll be able to feel the connection building.

It's not my style to lie about who I am, and I hope that's true for you as well.  That's why I'm not going to share any of the many canned PUA routines I've heard.  I'm sure you've got friends who are constantly telling stories about things they've done, places they've been, and the like.  You've probably done many of the same things and been to loads of different places yourself - so think of incidents in your life and travels that illustrate the sort of great guy you are and take the time to make good stories of them!

You're a PUA-in-training.  As such, you should be building your own routines based on your own life experiences.  Put the routines here to work - try them out yourself a few times and get a feel for them and for approaching women.  Working with these PUA routines will give you a better insight into making your own routines from your own life experiences.

Have you read The Game by Neil Strauss?  It's credited with popularizing Pick Up Artists (PUAs).  Many men worldwide have used the knowledge they gained from that book to re-invigorate their dating lives!  Whether you're new to dating, or feel you're pretty experienced, the tips laid out here should help you in your dating life.

Pick up artists come in two types.  The first kind studies long and hard, committing different PUA routines and stories to memory for later retelling to their targeted women.  These stories and routines are each intended to impress women and attract them to the PUA, and to ensure his success, he carefully crafts and polishes them.  Mystery is the prime example of this kind of pick up artist. 

The other type of pick up artist uses what Strauss calls the "natural game."  The natural game involves the PUA relying not on memorized lines and routines, but on his own natural charm, wit and personality to achieve success with women.   He approaches women and makes conversation spontaneously, relying on the circumstances of the immediate environment and the day's events for material.  A good example from The Game would be the PUA called “Juggler.”

Now there’s nothing wrong with either approach.  Personally, I like natural game the best, but if canned routines work best for you, by all means use those. Memorizing all that material, though, seems too much like work to me.  Besides, isn't it a better feeling to know that you've attracted a woman on the bases is your own personality - who you really are - instead of because of some story you made up?

It doesn't matter which approach you use, however, if you don't concentrate on your inner game and who you really are.  The term "inner game" is used to describe the real you - who you are, your beliefs, and especially your own self-confidence.  This means that if you yourself feel unattractive, or shy, it's likely you're not going to approach a woman you find really attractive, regardless of the routines, tips and stories you've made up and memorized.  The other side of the coin is this: if you're confident in your ability to approach and talk with women, you'll be able to approach any woman you want to - even the most attractive - and carry on a nice conversation without fear of being turned away.

Another pick up artist tip: take it easy.  Don't expect to start at the top.  Concentrate on the basics - your self-confidence, your inner game - and as these things improve, you'll find yourself with more women than you ever dreamed would be possible in your life!  When you find something in your path - an obstacle that keeps you from being successful - you must concentrate specifically on overcoming that obstacle.  For me, it was shyness.   I devised a challenge just for the purpose of overcoming my shyness: I had to stop and talk with 100 strangers a week.  You're going to run into obstacles, and it's your job to figure out how to overcome them.

Of all the possible pick up artist tips I could offer, though, one of the best is simple: consistency.  Once you've found a technique you're comfortable with, don't change.  Wannabe PUAs will invest a ton of money on all sorts of material that promises to show them how to be successful with women, but they won't give any of the techniques and strategies time to work.  After trying many approaches briefly, they'll denounce them all as ineffective.  Honestly speaking, though, these guys could have saved themselves a lot of time and money if they'd simply chosen a single approach, learned it well, and stuck to it. 

So that's my final advice for you - stick with the style that feels best to you.